Most of you who are regular readers know that I’m participating (competing is too strong a word at this point) in a race walking half-marathon in March. What many people didn’t know is that it takes place on a Sunday morning…and that it is sponsored by a beer brewery. That may not seem like a big deal, but for at least one person in my community (not a member of my church, thank goodness) it is.
Actually, he is a lot like me. I grew up in a religiously ultra-conservative, very legalistic environment. Certain activities were “bad”, like drinking, smoking and dancing. The people who participated in these activities were “bad people” and we were taught that if we were involved in such practices, or affiliated with such people, we were “bad” (not in a good sense), too. Guilty by association.
We weren’t allowed to be in the swimming pool the same time the girls were—no “mixed swimming”—lest we lust. The guys were even taught a little chant to reinforce the lesson: “We don’t smoke, drink, dance or chew…and we don’t go with girls who do.” I’m dead serious. That’s the way I was raised. It has taken years to un-do some of the damage that kind of legalism, and judgmental attitudes that often accompany it, produces.
So, I knew it was coming. The backlash. When word got around (and it does so quickly where I live) that the pastor is playing hookie from church to be in a race…on a Sunday…that’s sponsored by a beer company—for at least one neighbor it is nothing short of scandalous.
Never mind that I’ll be “in church” later in the day. Never mind that I’m not drinking beer—although I may be tempted to throw back a few cold ones after the event is over :) Never mind that a good portion of the entry fee is going to support some worthwhile charities…
So I’m sitting here in my old WWJD (What Would Jesus Do?) T-shirt trying to figure out how to respond to some of the judgmental condemnation I received recently from one who was less that thrilled about my extra-curricular activities. Currently I’m deciding to take the passive-aggressive route of blogging—the sit-down meeting will come later.
A few things I’ve learned:
¨ The people in the smoking section are not all “bad” people.
¨ Some of the “bad” people aren’t in bars, some are pillars in the church.
¨ Jesus would probably be hanging out where people gather, seeking to make new friends and influence their thinking in God’s direction.
So on a Sunday in March I’ll be hanging out with 10,000 of my closest friends, some of whom will no doubt have too much to drink before the day is over. Hopefully I’ll survive the physical test, make some new acquaintances and have a few conversations about spiritual matters. Later that day I’ll go to church and repent.
I’ll repent of not spending more time in the pool halls and the local bars making new friends and hearing their stories. I’ll repent of not spending more time sitting in the smoking section. I’ll repent of wasting so much time being religious rather than relevant. I’ll repent of wasting so much time not loving people the way Jesus does.
6 comments:
Good for you, Jim! Seriously...even Pastors get a day off now and then, don't they? How incredible rude of those members of the congregation who are chastizing you. It kind of goes against the very reason people go to church, doesn't it? Ironical.
Best of luck to you during your race!!! Can't wait to hear how it goes! I think you have definitely earned a beer or two, I don't care what religion you are.
Caroline,
Thanks for the support and well-wishes! I'm looking forward to it. Just to clarify--it was NOT a member of my congregation, but a neighbor-friend who took issue.
Most the folks at my church seem disappointed that "I'm only walking" instead of running--I assure them, it's harder than it looks :)
JimT
OH FOR GOODNESSAKE! God isn't just about Sunday morning service. Ya don't score extra points for showin up (even if you ARE the pastor).
I am ROARING about the people in the smoking section (and you KNOW I don't smoke) and you KNOW WHY I'm ROARING!
I've come to figure out people in the "smoking section" of life actually know how to socialize, treat people right and have a BLAST doing it - not to mention they know all the words to some pretty cool songs and they're willing to teach you.
Bwahahhaaha
Pastor J - YOU ROCK...errrr I mean SMOKE!! Don't let anyone tell you you don't.
Have I told you lately that you're awesome???
I love this post and think it's wonderful that you are unwilling to let the ridiculous views of your neighbor influence your decision to enter this race.
I must admit to finding the chant from your early years a little funny, but I can certainly relate to having a strict upbringing and I know that it was often no laughing matter.
Good luck with the race!!
hI, new here--found you from FREE...
Love the part where you said you'd repent from being religious and not relevant.
Wish I could skip church too and cheer you on!
Nester,
Thanks for dropping by, and thanks for the words of encouragement!
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